Obsequious toadying, possibly the most nauseating habit I've encountered in my lifetime, next to the hypocrisy of women who are whores in the bedroom, frostmaidens in the kitchen, yet insult whoredom in others. Every time someone tries to suck up to me with syrupy over-enthusiam, it makes me want to slap them with a rolled up newspaper. Get real. Just talk to me. Stop trying to impress me, butter me up, or win me over by appealing to vanity. I hate that shit. It's a nauseating turn-off. It's unnecessary to suck up to me in order to get my attention.