lonita.net - involved

Never get involved with a married man.
Never get involved with a man who's just got out of a relationship.
Never get involved with someone from work.
Never get involved with a friend of a friend.
Never get involved with a friend of the family.
Never get involved with a person you have to hide.
And finally...
If you're in a relationship with someone who hates, or is hated by, your friends and family, it's not going to work out very well, if at all. Too much unnecessary stress.