fishbowl
"We're just two lost souls, swimming in a fishbowl, year after year."
- Pink Floyd, "Wish You Were Here"
Sometimes finding solace or simpatico in another, is all human existence adds up to, all that it brings to anyone. That is not a bad thing, to find solace, understanding, someone with whom you can be at ease because you know they understand your fears, desires, and detritus, and they accept it all.
As much as some people will tell you that the only way to go is via the path of flaming heat and soul-wrenching joy, I don't think there's all that much wrong with attaching your lost soul to another - so long as you don't stay lost.