There is this misconception that abounds as regards the tastes of women,
that we like assholes. It's not true, you know. We don't like assholes at
all. What women like is confidence, strength. Unfortunately, more often
than not, these things get interpreted to mean "asshole" by both men and
women; either because the jerks of the world are the only people we see
embracing anything we could interpret as "strong", or because we have such
a limited way of looking at personality traits that we don't grasp the
fact that a nice guy can be strong and confident, and not be an asshole.